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Mediums and psychics each have their own, unique format when conducting a psychic reading. Some psychics ask that you prepare a set of questions prior to the reading. Other readings will consist of the psychic sharing information with you and then taking questions at the end. It is rare, if ever, that a psychic won't take your questions. I would view that as a huge red flag as asking questions is vital to getting a quality reading.

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In order to get the most out of your reading it is important to come prepared and to assertively ask for clarification on things you are unclear about or on information that is vague.

Ask for people to come through:

While psychics and mediums can never promise that a particular deceased loved one will show up during a reading it is OK to ask for a particular person. It is a good idea to send a thought out prior to the reading. It can be something as simple as, "Aunt Kathy, I would love for you to come through during my reading tomorrow."

Record the reading

If at all possible make sure that the reading is recorded. There can be a lot of information that gets lost if the reading isn't recorded. The psychic may pass along information not for you but for a relative or a friend. You may receive information that doesn't make sense right now but will make sense in a week or a month. You will not be able to absorb and retain 100 percent of the information provided in a reading. Every few months I will listen to old readings. I am constantly surprised when predictions come true or when information that didn't make sense at the time now makes perfect sense. Listening to old readings can be an enjoyable activity! Many times the psychic hotline will offer to record a session for you. If a psychic doesn't offer this service then I ask permission beforehand if I can record the call on my cell phone.

Questions

Questions to ask during a reading can include everything from how can I best improve my relationship? Show me how to get the most out of my job? Should I take that trip to Greece? Keep in mind that everyone has free will. It is unlikely that you will get responses like, "you are absolutely not to date that man." Instead you will receive information coming from a bigger picture than the snapshot that you are able to view from your perspective on life. The psychic may be able to assess the situation and describe feelings of happiness and contentment if you go ahead with the relationship. During a particular reading I asked the psychic if I should go ahead with buying a certain business. Her response was that she got a generally good feeling from it but that her guides were telling her that I needed to do some research and do some digging about the business beforehand. She specifically saw her spirit guides digging in the dirt with teaspoons. I thought that was so clever! 
 

When brainstorming a list of questions you may decide to stay away from "should I' and "will I" questions. These questions yield only "yes" or "no" responses. Instead phrase the question like "how can I best" or "show me the outcome of". Phrasing questions in this manner will yield far greater, more in-depth responses.

Potential subject areas:

  • Career
  • Travel
  • Past, present and future relationships
  • Family
  • Money/Finances
  • Health
  • Spiritual development
  • Happiness
  • Life path
  • Habits
  • Past lives
  • Karmic debt

Sample Questions:

What is my most suitable career/work for me?

Tell me about my future with regards to my current career.

What is the best step or course of action to take right now to ensure me and my family's safety and happiness? 

Will I meet someone that I am on the same wavelength with? When? Can you tell me about this person?

I'm unhappy in our relationship, can you help me to understand better?

How can I manifest and attract more of what I WANT in my life…while avoiding the recurring themes that keep dragging me down? 

I am thinking of making a major purchase. Any guidance on what will happen here?

How can I improve my financial situation?

Tell me about my future with regards to health in general.

 Do I have any particular issues I need to address right now?  

What factors are holding me back from progressing and what can I do to bring about a better change?

What is best step or course of action to take right now to strengthen the relationships I have? 

Am I living the life I was destined to live?

Steps to take:

Before the reading:

If the reading is over the phone make sure that you are sitting in a comfortable position in a room that is free from distractions, i.e. dogs barking, people interrupting, phone ringing.

Take a few minutes prior to the reading to clear your mind. Let go of distressing thoughts, problems, and worries.

Have your questions written down on paper.   

If you are recording your session make sure that the recording equipment is ready and working.

During the reading:

Have an open mind. It is OK to be skeptical and to seek validating information. It is terribly counterproductive if you go into the reading thinking sarcastic thoughts like, "yeah right, this will never work." Like attracts Like. If you are thinking negative thoughts then you are creating your own negative experience.

It is very important to ask clarifying questions when something doesn't make complete sense to you. Ask follow-up questions as necessary.

After the reading:

Write down everything that comes to mind after the reading. Include a summary of the information received during the reading and the emotions you felt.